Men, when’s the last time you dated your bride?
Not the last time you took her on a date, but the last time you made her feel pursued.
When’s the last time you approached your relationship with the same intensity and vigor you did when you first met.
Put some thought into it, guys. Plan ahead. Don’t wait until the last minute all the time. Spontaneity is great, but a well thought out pursuit can make your lady feel really special.
I need to do this more often. I think it comes and goes in seasons but I don’t want it to. I want to make it part of our everyday life. My bride deserves it. My kids, both son and daughters, need to see it. That way he knows what it looks like to love your bride and our girls will have quite an expectation for their future grooms.
Oh, and do it because you love her, not because you’re going to get something out of it. I won’t tell you that you won’t get a return on your investment, but that should just be the icing on the cake.